Finding the Right Fit: Selecting the Right Financial Role Model for You

By
Jeff Motske, CFP®
February 4, 2019
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Role models have a very powerful function. They shape values and behaviors in all facets of life, including our relationship with our finances. Knowing the influence they have, it’s obviously important to select the right financial role model. However, many are selected with very little consideration, if any at all. When it comes to something as important as your financial independence, you need to be confident that you’re following the right example to ensure that you and your money work together for your greater good.

There are those who are fortunate to have great people in their lives to provide an example of what to value and how to live. If this good example extends to finances, you are very fortunate indeed. However, good behavior or strong values doesn’t always guarantee a good financial role model. A generous nature doesn’t guarantee a good budgeter. Support in your youth doesn’t mean they planned well for their future. When selecting a financial role model, you need to make sure you’re selecting them based on sound financial behaviors and a relationship to their financial independence that you would like to emulate.

Oftentimes, though, many haven’t realized they have already unconsciously selected a financial role model. They may assume that they are simply reacting to circumstances happening to them. However, their response may be a direct duplication of mom’s ardent saving, dad’s faith in the stock market, or Aunt Flo’s blatant disregard for a budget. When we really stop and study our financial patterns, we realize that we have adopted many financial behaviors that may or may not be aiding us in our path to financial freedom. Without any scrutiny of these behaviors, we may be in for a rude and unfortunate awakening in the future.

Rather than unconsciously mimicking behaviors, we should be consciously selecting a financial role model. As with all decisions, be aware of whose lead you are following and what you want that to mean for your finances. Selecting the right example of financial behavior will pave the way to our goals. Don’t forget that your money and your road to financial freedom is under your control – choose wisely.

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By Trilogy Financial
October 13, 2025

Starting December 16, 2025, Meta will begin using what you say or ask in Meta AI chats to personalize what you see on Facebook and Instagram.

  • Example: If you ask Meta AI for hiking tips, you may start seeing more hiking posts or ads.
  • Meta says it will not use AI chats about sensitive topics such as politics, religion, or health.
  • Users will begin receiving notifications about this change in October.

 

What This Means for You

Your social media experience may start to feel more personalized, but it also means Meta will collect and analyze more information about your interests based on your AI conversations.

 

Possible Risks

  • Less Privacy: Your AI chats could influence what ads or posts you see. Even if Meta says it is not reading your full conversations, it is still learning from them.
  • Unintended Targeting: You may start seeing ads or content you did not expect, based on what you mentioned to Meta AI.
  • Misunderstandings: If the AI misinterprets what you say, it could lead to inaccurate suggestions or assumptions about your interests.
  • Data Sharing Concerns: More information about you increases the risk if Meta’s systems are ever compromised or misused.

 

What You Can Do

You do not have to stop using Meta AI, but you can take steps to control how much it learns from you.

  1. Limit what you share with Meta AI.
    Avoid asking personal or sensitive questions.
    Treat AI chats like public posts and do not share anything private.
  2. Review your ad preferences.
    Go to Settings → Ads Preferences on Facebook or Instagram.
    Adjust “Ad Topics” and “Activity Used for Ads” to limit personalization.
  3. Use the “Why am I seeing this” option.
    Tap the three dots on any ad or post to understand why it was shown and make changes.
  4. Turn off AI features where possible.
    You can skip or decline to use Meta AI in searches or chats.
  5. Stay alert for prompts.
    Meta will notify users about this update. Take a moment to read the message before clicking “Agree.”

 

Bottom Line

Meta’s AI is designed to make your social media feed feel more relevant, but it also means the company is using new kinds of data about you. If you use Meta AI, be thoughtful about what you share and take a few minutes to review your privacy settings so you stay in control.

By Trilogy Financial
July 18, 2024

Are you aware of the common pitfalls that can erode your wealth and how to prevent them?

In the pursuit of financial independence, it’s not just about building wealth but also about protecting it from erosion. At Trilogy Financial, we understand the critical importance of mitigating wealth erosion to ensure long-term financial stability. Here are ten strategies to help you with asset preservation wealth & tax and achieve your financial goals.

 

1. Taxes

 

Taxes are a significant expense for everyone, but High-Net-Worth Tax Strategies can help manage and reduce their impact on your wealth. Consider maximizing contributions to retirement accounts like IRAs and 401(k)s for tax advantages, and explore health savings accounts (HSAs) for additional tax benefits.

 

Key Tax Strategies:

 

  • Maximize contributions to tax-advantaged retirement accounts.
  • Utilize HSAs for medical expenses.
  • Consult a tax advisor for personalized tax-saving strategies.

 

2. Credit Cards

 

High-interest credit card debt can quickly erode your wealth. Implementing a strategic approach to managing credit card debt can help reduce the financial burden and improve your net worth. One effective strategy for managing credit card debt is to use the debt avalanche or snowball methods.

 

Credit Card Management Strategies:

 

  • Use the debt avalanche or snowball methods to pay down high-interest debt.
  • Consider consolidating debt with a lower-interest personal loan or balance transfer credit card.
  • Create a disciplined budgeting plan to avoid accumulating new debt.

 

3. Depreciation

 

Assets like cars and electronics lose value over time, impacting your wealth. Adopting a ‘buy and hold’ approach and making strategic purchasing decisions can help mitigate the effects of depreciation.

 

Combating Depreciation:

 

  • Keep vehicles for longer periods.
  • Buy slightly used cars to avoid initial depreciation.
  • Invest in assets that appreciate or depreciate less over time, such as real estate or classic cars.

 

4. Market Cyclicality

 

Market volatility can cause anxiety, but a diversified investment strategy can help manage the risks associated with market fluctuations.

 

Navigating Market Cyclicality:

 

  • Diversify your investments across different asset classes and geographies.
  • *Implement dollar-cost averaging to manage investment costs.
  • Consult with a financial advisor to tailor a diversified portfolio.

 

*Dollar cost averaging involves continuous investment in securities regardless of fluctuation in price levels of such securities. An investor should consider their ability to continue purchasing through fluctuating price levels. Such a plan does not assure a profit and does not protect against loss in declining markets. (67-LPL)

 

5. Lack of Diversification

 

Putting all your investments in one basket increases risk. Diversifying your portfolio across various asset classes and sectors can reduce volatility and potential losses.

 

Diversification Strategies:

 

  • Invest in a mix of equities, fixed income, and alternatives.
  • Use broad market instruments like ETFs or mutual funds.
  • Regularly review and rebalance your portfolio with a financial advisor.

 

6. Unexpected Expenses

 

Unexpected expenses can disrupt your financial plans. Establishing an emergency fund is crucial to cover unforeseen costs without resorting to high-interest debt.

 

Preparing for Unexpected Expenses:

 

  • Build an emergency fund covering 3-6 months’ worth of expenses.
  • Automate savings to ensure consistent contributions to your emergency fund.
  • Adjust your budget to prioritize saving for emergencies.

 

7. Misaligned Investments

 

Investing without a clear plan can lead to poor financial outcomes. Aligning your investments with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon is essential.

 

Aligning Investments:

 

  • Define clear investment goals and time horizons.
  • Educate yourself about different investment types.
  • Seek personalized advice from a financial advisor to create Custom Investment Strategies.

 

8. Procrastination

 

Procrastination can significantly impact your wealth-building efforts. Starting early and setting achievable goals can make a big difference in your financial future.

 

Overcoming Procrastination:

 

  • Set short-term and long-term financial goals.
  • Use financial tools and apps to automate savings and investments.
  • Consult a financial advisor to create a tailored financial plan.

 

9. Lack of Planning

 

A comprehensive financial plan is the foundation of successful wealth management. An advantage of effective personal financial planning is that it can transform uncertainty into a roadmap for success.

 

Creating a Financial Plan:

 

  • Assess your current financial situation.
  • Set realistic and specific financial goals.
  • Develop a plan that allocates resources towards achieving these goals.

 

10. Lack of Proper Protection

 

Unexpected life events can derail your financial plans. Proper insurance and estate planning can protect your wealth and provide confidence.

 

Implementing Proper Protection:

 

  • Obtain adequate life, disability, and long-term care insurance.
  • Create a will and other estate planning documents for Legacy Planning.
  • Consult with a financial planner to assess your Financial Protection Strategies.

 

Conclusion

 

Preventing wealth erosion is as important as building wealth. By addressing these common pitfalls with strategic planning and professional guidance, you can safeguard your financial future. At Trilogy Financial, we specialize in Comprehensive Wealth Management ServicesRetirement Planning for High-Net-Worth Individuals, and long term family wealth planning. Our services also include family wealth protection, risk management positions, and Custom Investment Strategies that protect and grow your wealth. Contact us today to learn how we can help you achieve your financial goals and secure a prosperous future.

 

 

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If you're ready to elevate your financial planning with our professional team, we invite you to schedule a meeting with us. At Trilogy Financial Services, our advisors in Corona are dedicated to crafting personalized financial strategies that align with your unique goals. Don't wait to start your journey towards financial success:

  • Schedule a Meeting: Reach out to us to arrange a one-on-one consultation with our financial professionals.
  • Give Us a Call: Prefer a quick conversation? Feel free to give us a call to discuss your financial needs and how we can assist. Call Us To Get Started. (844) 356-4934

Schedule a No-Strings-Attached Portfolio Review today and embark on a path to financial success guided by professional advisors. For more information and to schedule your consultation, visit www.trilogyfs.com/yourmoneyamplified. With the right knowledge and professional guidance, the journey of investing becomes an exciting venture towards achieving financial security and growth. This way, you're not just dreaming of an ideal retirement but actively working towards making it a reality.

 

*There is no guarantee that a diversified portfolio will enhance overall returns or outperform a non-diversified portfolio. Diversification does not protect against market risk.

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