Making Sure Your Spouse is the MVP of Your Financial Team

Jeff Motske, CFP®

March 10, 2020

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It’s no surprise that I often talk about the need to have a strong, supportive financial team to pursue financial independence. These financial teams can consist of a CPA, an estate planning attorney or a real estate agent, with your trusted financial advisor acting as the general manager of your team. While each one provides a specialized level of expertise, for individuals who are married, there is another person that can make or break your route to financial independence: your spouse. Often, we underestimate the value your spouse brings to your financial house, which is why it is so important to make them the MVP of your financial team.

In order to pursue financial independence, couples must be on the same page and work together towards common goals. For many, though, that is just not the case. Nearly half of U.S. couples argue over finances.[i] These disagreements can be based on resentment over spending rather than saving. Sometimes arguments arise over differing risk tolerance. The heart of these issues lies in goal mismatch, a situation that arises when your combined goals are not aligned. When you and your spouse are not working together towards your combined financial independence, chances of reaching it are slim.

While some couples argue, others simply don’t communicate. Both people in a marriage need to be involved in their finances, agreeing on their financial goals and the steps they’re taking to get there. Being unaware of your financial household, whether it’s because only one person in the relationship is in charge of the household finances or because both parties have decided to keep separate financial lives, simply causes problems. When you don’t know what the other is doing with their money, you can’t be sure that you’re both working towards the same goals in the most effective way. Additionally, you may be setting yourself up for unfortunate complications if your partner unexpectedly passes or becomes incapacitated. Honestly, I’d rather have my clients argue than avoid discussing finances. At least they’re talking about it.

So how do you and your spouse get on the same page? You can start by taking my financial compatibility quiz. Not only will the quiz show you what areas the two of you are like-minded and what areas you need to work on, but it’ll also give you the conversation starters to mine those areas you may not see eye-to-eye on. If you need a little more guidance on what to talk about, you can check out my book, The Couple’s Guide to Financial Compatibility. Also, make sure to get some time for yourself for date night – particularly a Financial Date Night. Make the investment for a babysitter to ensure some consistent quality time where you can have open, honest discussions on big-picture issues and long-term goals. For those really tough topics, you can use a trusted Financial Advisor to help you navigate the conversation.

I am a firm believer in investing in your future. Whether you invest in a book, a babysitter or your time, these investments go a long way to ensure your marital financial health. It’s when you make sure that you’re working together with your spouse that you build a strong and sure route to your financial independence.

[i] https://nypost.com/2017/08/03/the-reasons-most-couples-argue-about-money/

The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. To determine what is appropriate for you, consult a qualified professional.

There are some who see retirement as a finish line. I feel like this is slightly misleading. In actuality, quite a lot can still be accomplished at this time in your life. Rather than viewing retirement as a reprieve from the hustle and bustle, I like to see it as a final chapter to solidify your life’s success. How that looks, though, is entirely up to you.

The first step to ensure your life’s success is determining how you personally define that. This is a big picture question. Think about what you want said about you at your eulogy. What do you want to be known for? How do you want to be remembered when you’re no longer around? Some people focus on family and personal relationships. Others look to leaving a legacy or collecting memorable life experiences. This is clearly a deeply personal definition. Don’t look to the Joneses to define that for you.

Once you make the determination of what you want the next chapter to represent, it’s time to figure out what that looks like for you. Does a focus on family mean weekly family dinners at your home or visiting all the professional baseball fields throughout the United States with your children? Does leaving a legacy mean you want your name on a building or does it mean funding your grandchildren’s college fund? Does collecting memorable experiences mean getting an RV and traveling around the country or high-adrenaline activities like jumping out of an airplane? The clearer the vision, the better you can prepare to make it a reality.

Now the last step is making the proper preparations to see this vision come to fruition. Life can throw you curve balls. Make sure that if it does, you’re prepared. Be sure to have a financial plan and meet regularly with your trusted advisor. Create an estate plan and make sure your affairs are in order to ensure that you finish the victory lap of your life well.

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10 Strategies to Prevent Wealth Erosion

By Trilogy Financial

July 18, 2024

Are you aware of the common pitfalls that can erode your wealth and how to prevent them?

In the pursuit of financial independence, it’s not just about building wealth but also about protecting it from erosion. At Trilogy Financial, we understand the critical importance of mitigating wealth erosion to ensure long-term financial stability. Here are ten strategies to help you with asset preservation wealth & tax and achieve your financial goals.

1. Taxes

Taxes are a significant expense for everyone, but High-Net-Worth Tax Strategies can help manage and reduce their impact on your wealth. Consider maximizing contributions to retirement accounts like IRAs and 401(k)s for tax advantages, and explore health savings accounts (HSAs) for additional tax benefits.

Key Tax Strategies:

Maximize contributions to tax-advantaged retirement accounts.
Utilize HSAs for medical expenses.
Consult a tax advisor for personalized tax-saving strategies.

2. Credit Cards

High-interest credit card debt can quickly erode your wealth. Implementing a strategic approach to managing credit card debt can help reduce the financial burden and improve your net worth. One effective strategy for managing credit card debt is to use the debt avalanche or snowball methods.

Credit Card Management Strategies:

Use the debt avalanche or snowball methods to pay down high-interest debt.
Consider consolidating debt with a lower-interest personal loan or balance transfer credit card.
Create a disciplined budgeting plan to avoid accumulating new debt.

3. Depreciation

Assets like cars and electronics lose value over time, impacting your wealth. Adopting a ‘buy and hold’ approach and making strategic purchasing decisions can help mitigate the effects of depreciation.

Combating Depreciation:

Keep vehicles for longer periods.
Buy slightly used cars to avoid initial depreciation.
Invest in assets that appreciate or depreciate less over time, such as real estate or classic cars.

4. Market Cyclicality

Market volatility can cause anxiety, but a diversified investment strategy can help manage the risks associated with market fluctuations.

Navigating Market Cyclicality:

Diversify your investments across different asset classes and geographies.
*Implement dollar-cost averaging to manage investment costs.
Consult with a financial advisor to tailor a diversified portfolio.

*Dollar cost averaging involves continuous investment in securities regardless of fluctuation in price levels of such securities. An investor should consider their ability to continue purchasing through fluctuating price levels. Such a plan does not assure a profit and does not protect against loss in declining markets. (67-LPL)

5. Lack of Diversification

Putting all your investments in one basket increases risk. Diversifying your portfolio across various asset classes and sectors can reduce volatility and potential losses.

Diversification Strategies:

Invest in a mix of equities, fixed income, and alternatives.
Use broad market instruments like ETFs or mutual funds.
Regularly review and rebalance your portfolio with a financial advisor.

6. Unexpected Expenses

Unexpected expenses can disrupt your financial plans. Establishing an emergency fund is crucial to cover unforeseen costs without resorting to high-interest debt.

Preparing for Unexpected Expenses:

Build an emergency fund covering 3-6 months’ worth of expenses.
Automate savings to ensure consistent contributions to your emergency fund.
Adjust your budget to prioritize saving for emergencies.

7. Misaligned Investments

Investing without a clear plan can lead to poor financial outcomes. Aligning your investments with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon is essential.

Aligning Investments:

Define clear investment goals and time horizons.
Educate yourself about different investment types.
Seek personalized advice from a financial advisor to create Custom Investment Strategies.

8. Procrastination

Procrastination can significantly impact your wealth-building efforts. Starting early and setting achievable goals can make a big difference in your financial future.

Overcoming Procrastination:

Set short-term and long-term financial goals.
Use financial tools and apps to automate savings and investments.
Consult a financial advisor to create a tailored financial plan.

9. Lack of Planning

A comprehensive financial plan is the foundation of successful wealth management. An advantage of effective personal financial planning is that it can transform uncertainty into a roadmap for success.

Creating a Financial Plan:

Assess your current financial situation.
Set realistic and specific financial goals.
Develop a plan that allocates resources towards achieving these goals.

10. Lack of Proper Protection

Unexpected life events can derail your financial plans. Proper insurance and estate planning can protect your wealth and provide confidence.

Implementing Proper Protection:

Obtain adequate life, disability, and long-term care insurance.
Create a will and other estate planning documents for Legacy Planning.
Consult with a financial planner to assess your Financial Protection Strategies.

Conclusion

Preventing wealth erosion is as important as building wealth. By addressing these common pitfalls with strategic planning and professional guidance, you can safeguard your financial future. At Trilogy Financial, we specialize in Comprehensive Wealth Management Services, Retirement Planning for High-Net-Worth Individuals, and long term family wealth planning. Our services also include family wealth protection, risk management positions, and Custom Investment Strategies that protect and grow your wealth. Contact us today to learn how we can help you achieve your financial goals and secure a prosperous future.

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Schedule a No-Strings-Attached Portfolio Review today and embark on a path to financial success guided by professional advisors. For more information and to schedule your consultation, visit www.trilogyfs.com/yourmoneyamplified. With the right knowledge and professional guidance, the journey of investing becomes an exciting venture towards achieving financial security and growth. This way, you're not just dreaming of an ideal retirement but actively working towards making it a reality.

*There is no guarantee that a diversified portfolio will enhance overall returns or outperform a non-diversified portfolio. Diversification does not protect against market risk.